I should have never listened to them

August 8, 2013

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Marriage is based off of more than just love.  You have to have trust.  If trust is one of the issues you are struggling with, here is what you can do to remedy the situation in all areas of your life.

The old saying, “All men cheat” is not true.  Believe it or not, there are still some decent men out there that are honest.  You must not compare your relationship with that of other family members. When a relative loads their woes on you about reasons why men can’t be trusted, you have to take it with a grain of salt.  Your relationship is not their relationship; not only that, just because it didn’t work for them does not mean it will not work for you.  In essence, you listen to what they have to say while drawing on your own sense of accountability.

Friends are more opinionated.  They will tell you what they would do if they were in your situation, but guess what; they are not in your situation. Advice given doesn’t always have to be taken.

It’s very simple, if you don’t trust, you don’t have much of a marriage because you are constantly wondering where he is when he’s not home on time or didn’t text you back.  If you truly want to drive your man away, keep calling him, keep asking him where he’s been, and keep accusing him of cheating.

This happened to me, constant worries and concerns.  It all stopped when these words were mentioned by him, “Since you are accusing me of cheating, I might as well do it.”

Trust is a five letter word that takes years to build in a relationship.  The question is; will he still be around to wait for you to build it?

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